You know those end-of-the-year word lists that tell you “defriend” or “teabag” is, like, the Annual Word to Be Shunned?  Well, here’s my shortlist for the beginning of this year, let’s call it the Word to Not Defriend (or teabag either, come to think of it).  Let’s call it the Operative Word for 2010, and let’s go out there and have some, people.